One day,Tom Search paid a visit to his long time friend, Wander Walker.They’ve been friends for more than more than fifteen years.They went to the same high school together where they learnt to share their problems as best friends.However,some strange things have been bothering Tom, for almost three years now.He didn’t know what was happening to him until he could not contain these headaches to himself and decided to seek an advice from his friend. He told Wonder all about his strange feelings.He started to tell him that he was feeling dizzy and his heart was beating very fast.His tounge would become tasteless and has no feeling of eating some food.He tried occasionally to consult different physicians who gave him some tablets to drink.However,the pills would not wipe away his problems!He would feel fine for few days and thereafter the same headache would knock at the door of his heart,again!Tom was married for three years and his wife is Windy Forest.They have no children! Wonder tried his level best to point him in the right direction by telling him to visit consultants that might come up with the solutions.Little did he knew that his friend had visited numerous specialist in and out of his hometown.He spent his money going to and from to look for help.He thought he was not eating enough and lack some vitamins.He  bought some and try many method to eradicate the pains.His wife could not understand what was happening to him.He also ask God to intervene and unshackle him.Sometimes he would sweat and have sleepless nights. To Tom,there was a little hope for solution to his worries.What really was happening to Him?Is there a solution to his problems?Why the doctors could not help him?Physicians form an integral part of our lives but they don’t possess all the answers to our situations.What is happening to Tom has to do with his wife,Windy!She was not happy the way her husband was running things in their home.She was gradually pulling her heart away from Tom. When someone you love is strongly opposing some of the things you stand for or do,you will experience some funny and painful experience.You will begin to feel lonely and lost.You will be like a bachelor in your marriage/relationship.The truth is the love of your partner is dying.Love is powerful and when it becomes weak there will be penalties that need to be paid.In a romance when one partner is habitually not happy or demand other partner  to be something he/she doesn’t want to be,the other partner will suffer .These occurrences can also happen to friends and members of the same family.When you’re feeling dizzy,your heart is beating fast and have no feeling of food,sort this out with people you’re close to! When your lover is happy with you and accept you the way you’re,you will feel joy and warmth in your heart.And if  he/she is not happy with you, your heart or body will give you a signal that something is not right in your relationship.Don’t hurt yourself for no reason!Find someone who will embrace and make you feel at home.You don’t have to spend the rest of your life in a jungle.There are many unpleasant surprises incidents in a jungle.Be safe!

Gary and his wife Lilly were a very happy couple.They have been married for 10 years now.Everything was going their way and according to their wish.God has blessed them with decent employment, peace and love for each other.Although, he hasn’t given them the child they’re waiting and praying for,they were at ease with everything that is happening around them.Some friends and neighbours they look up to them as their role model.They never thought that something or someone would ruin what they had.

One day Lily came home from work and to her astonishment she found her husband at home earlier than he.Usually,she was the one who arrived earlier than her husband.She decided to ask her,Honey!you have arrived early today?Her husband could not give her an instant reply.After a heavy sigh, he told her that he was no longer working.He was retrenched!She tried to comfort and give him the moral support he needed.She seemed fine,and was able to cope despite his husband not working.

However,after few months the mood changed.Lily became impatient and would not talk nicely to her husband.Gary tried to find work but to no success.Lily began to develop a certain bad behavior of coming home very late.She used to arrive home around half past five in the evening.She fabricated her own amusing stories to lie to Gary.Everyday,it was as usual and Gary get used to the idea that his wife was coming home late from work.He trusted his wife wholeheartedly.

One unpleasant cold day,Gary was delayed in town by his friend,Charles.It was about six in the evening when he decided to buy a coffee in a certain restaurant.He went in, bought, sat down to drink his coffee.He did not believe what his eyes was seeing.He couldn’t continue with the sipping of his coffee.He was sweating and shaking.His beautiful wife was deep kissing a man!A concern waitress asked him,”Are you okay,sir!”He couldn’t answer.He stood up and hit the road with pain,anger and frustration.Later,his wife also arrived.

He confronted her and ask her why she was unfaithful to him?She didn’t show any remorse.She told him that she was leaving him and there’s nothing he would do to change her mind.He tried to beg her to stay but her wife was in love with a well-off man in their area.She was moving in with him.Gary tried to call and ask to meet with his wife but to no avail.She divorced him few weeks later.After a year a, Charles paid Gary a visit and where he told his ex-wife was in distress.The rich guy was abusing her:beating her and not giving her any money.She was jobless and staying with her sisters who are also ill-treating her.She wanted to go back to Gary but she knew what she said to Gary when she left him”You are not my type!I did you a favor by marrying you!”

Whatever you do in life,be cautious not to do what will make you regret later,when you find out that you have been chasing the wind with your actions.Love is not about money or wealth.It is about peace and happiness.When you find real love see to it to nurture and take care of it.When you lost real love it is difficult to find it again.It’s like a lost gold.You have to sweat to get it back unless you have some kind of luck.You will need to be submissive and truly admit your sins before any forgiveness can be given to you.Are you in love or are you looking to gain something?Your actions speak louder than words!

James was a good man who liked to help people in his neighbourhood.He was in the late thirties and divorced with no children.He was jobless and was staying with his relatives.After the split up,he made a decision to go and start a new life somewhere,where no one knew him.However,he did not know where to go.One day he got a job to a certain company far away from his hometown.

He started to build himself up and find new decent friends who did not treat him as a foreigner.They consider him as a brother and one of their community leader because of his expertise.He was also fortunate to find romance again.Although life started to be neighbourly to him,something was bothering him.It was something he did in the past.And had been bothering him for years even before his marriage.He didn’t know how deal with it!

He was young and naive when a man was destroyed because of him.It has been more than 18 years since the incident happened.He and his friends robbed a shop and severely hurt a chinese shopkeeper.He was a notorious ringleader and what he commanded should be followed!He was the one who issued a command to hurt him.The man was crippled and could no longer run his business.Five years later he was a transformed man and participants in the community uplifting projects.One day he was prompted to visit the chinese shopkeeper to ask for forgiveness.However,he was unfortunate!

When he arrived at the shop,he found his wife who told her that her husband died few months later, the same year he was robbed.He had a heart attack.His shop was struggling to survive because of the incident.Her wife tried to forgive him because she was a christian.However,James could not forgive himself.He and his friends crippled and took a good man’s life.Some of his accomplices have been murdered.He realised then what they did was uncalled for.

It is not good to dwell in the past when you want to succeed in life.The past is our guide to the way of maturity.It is our school of better tomorrow.It should not be use to hold us captivity but to be a way to freedom.A person who does not have a yesterday, does not know where he/she is going.Where there’s no past,there’s no present! In life we have pleasant and bad life experience.Use the past to build your own path and future not to deprive yourself happiness.We use past to find ourselves and make amendments where are needed.Those who remind us about what we did in the previous life are not angel themselves! They also have skeletons in their own closets.

We are brought here in this world for a reason and a mission.However,because we don’t know why we’re here for,we try to do things in our own way.Some of the things we do are good and some are bad.We are like children who don’t have a clue of everything they do and what is happening around them.We hurt one another because we don’t know what are we supposed to be.We are lost like a stranger in foreign country.Our lives are surrounded by longing and desperation for answers.There are folks among us who try to show us the way to a solution from our problems.Their method that they use to help us is based on their intellectual theory.

Who are we and where do we come from?Should we rely on human wisdom or should we look for an alternative way to find the truth.There are plenty of advices out there!Yet we don’t know which is which!And some has to do with the involvement of physical labour:Body piercing,incense inhaling,blood sprinkling and dancing the whole night.Do we truly find what are we looking for in all these concepts.Do we have to go extra mile,hurting and killing ourselves.Some of the things we do to ourselves don’t make sense.Is there a hope for us?

There are stuff that we clearly see that they can’t make us understand who are we and why are we here,yet we use them.We drink them!We are looking for something that will make us great and durable.We’re full of envy and try to find crooked ways to eliminate our enemies.We rob ourselves.We always want to win no matter what the cost.Our minds don’t have a rest.Is there a beginning or end to us.Are we walking in darkness or in light.Do we need a help from a new source or what?We’re like an old tree which has been pulled down because it doesn’t provide a shade anymore, for it’s owners.

We travel to and from but not a complete answer is eminent.All these things we’re doing, we have to be certain that are what we’re here for.If we’re not sure, we have to go and find the answers to the one who brought us here.He knows what we don’t know.He will help us not to ruin ourselves but to build ourselves up.We are only human beings and we don’t know nothing.We think we know all.The knowledge we have is little compared to what He has.Our intellect will not take us far.We’re all like babies to Him!There’s nothing he doesn’t know about us.Who is He?He is the one we call when all our attempts have failed!

We are being given all abilities to do the best we can by God.We are given a time limit to achieve our dreams and goals.Life is full of many twists and turns.There are hurdles that we’re going to face and some of them will put us down.We have those of us who do their best to pull themselves up and continue with their journey.Some will end their journey and feel futile to move on.They will stay where they are.Their mission to success has been stolen and no more.The only option left for them is to take an easy route back to where they started their journey.Life stumbling blocks have  made them to change their minds and blame God.Walk and keep on walking.

Life is like someone who is building a house.A builder will start with the erection of a foundation,walls and finish with the roofing.From base of a house to the roof,it is not a child’s play.He has to sweat before the house is complete.This is the same as someone who initiates a project.Before he/she can enjoy the fruits of his/her labour,there will be some toil involved.This is how life has been designed.However,some of us are ignorant and absent-minded.We always look for quicker ways to success.We don’t want to build on the solid  base.We always go for that which will not sustain us when the heavy storm comes.
Walk and keep on walking.

Our minds think of ways to get instant results.Fortune that has been accumulated rapidly without labour,does not give a complete fulfillment,and has no meaning.Success can’t be bought.Everyone of us has to prove him/herself that he can be able to stand and be counted.There’s no person who will fight other person’s battle.You have to confront your own struggles.From time to time people come and assist us in our setbacks.They are not fighting our battles but they are there to help us face our hiccups.Friends we rely on, are not our substitutes for our own sorrows.We need them to comfort and encourage us to look ahead.
Walk and keep on walking.

We have to find ourselves and see life over the wall.Those who were able to walk and kept on walking,they have a story to tell and life full of memories.They have built themselves legacies that folks will get inspiration and motivation from.They have become a force to be reckoned with.A house of wisdom.A tree with robust roots.They are not intimidated.Their lips will take you to another world you’ve never been before.When you stare at them,you see dignity because they walked and kept on walking and never went back.
Walk and keep on walking.

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There was a pretty renowned business lady who use to visit a particular coffee shop.
She was in the late thirties.One day while she was indulging herself with a cup of tea and cookies,she did not realise that a certain man was staring at her.He was also in the late thirties.When she lifted her cup of tea to take a sip,she noticed that a handsome guy was gaping at her with a smile.She tried to ignore him but she was too late.He approached her and kindly ask to keep her company.She did not approve his request but because he politely begged her,she finally agreed to welcome him to her table.It didn’t took a long time when folks could here their romantic laughter.

Something was going between them.Later,when she was about to leave,they decided to exchanged their contacts information.Two months later,the guy proposed to her.She accepted the proposal.And they got married the following month.Only a handful folks attended the wedding.They appeared to be a very happy couple.They were always together,holding,kissing and hugging each other.They were trying the best they could to stay in good spirit.However,they had a problem they were hiding.The bedroom problem!Each time they try to be intimate,the man’s penis would fall asleep.He would try to wake it up but it was in a deep sleep.He tried many technique s but not many of them seem to be working.The only time it would try to rise from the dead,was when he had to use some pills.

Another problem they had, they couldn’t satisfy each other in bed, even in the midst of pills and techniques.They labour hard to enjoy sex in the bedroom.What went wrong in the first place?What causes the man and the woman to not take pleasure in sex?Is there an answer to their headache?Yes!

When two different people claim they’re in love,they have to make sure they are the same.They are sugar and tea.They are not East and West.When God created Adam and Eve.He took the one of the ribs from Adam’s body and made Eve.In other words,Adam was Eve,and Eve was Adam.If you’re in an infatuated relationship or marriage,the bedroom problem will still exist.Do yourself a favour and check yourself. You might be staying with someone who belongs to somebody else.When you meet someone who was intended for you,the problems like weak erection, and early ejaculation will not be found in the corridors of your bedroom.Don’t kiss a stranger?